A Week in Bruges.... (Part One...)

You may have noticed my recent disappearance for a week.  I was in Bruges, on retreat.  With some other clergy from the Diocese I went to St Andrew's Abbey, just outside Bruges itself.  That would sound more impressive if I'd put the name in Flemish, but I've forgotten how!

The traditional way to get to Bruges (at least for us) is by boat, though some members of our group behaved appallingly and went by Eurostar.  Shame on them.  I love the boat journey.  Not only does the sense of distance give permission to stop, to relax, but I also just like the way boats move.  The way they slightly catch you off balance, and make you move to one side or the other as you walk.  Can you tell that sea sickness is not a problem I suffer from?!

This is clearly not our boat, or I couldn't have taken a picture.  But it's like our boat.  Just a little quicker out of port than us!

I rather liked the rainbow that appeared halfway through the journey.  Actually, it appeared halfway through my lunch too - we always eat on the boat.  You'll see why....

Not the most exciting view, but...WE'VE ARRIVED!

One short car journey later, and we arrive at the Abbey.  It's set well back from the road, and in it's own grounds with lovely walks in woods, which at this time of year are full of autumn colours.  Just beautiful.


I'm already looking forward to long walks, and peace and quiet!







At the end of the driveway, the Abbey itself appears.  It's a beautiful building which seems to emanate peace and tranquility, which I guess is one reason why the clergy retreat has being doing this journey for so long.

 

I love the different shapes on the Abbey building - square towers, round towers, little onion shaped turrets.  It's all so...well...interesting!

 

I suppose I should share the luxury of my room?  You do want to see, don't you?  Well, we got to choose which rooms we had, so I picked the same one I had last year.  I don't know why; they are all the same! But, somehow, that one was MINE, and I wanted it!  So....here it is!

 

Picture One - facing towards the door....

 

 

and Picture Two - facing towards the window!

 

 

Not luxury, but more than enough for a peaceful few days!

 

We have talks in the morning and afternoon while we are on retreat, and they are held in the Guest Chapel on the corridor where the bedrooms are.  We also have Compline last thing each evening.  The Chapel is beautiful - peaceful and calm, and holy.

 

 

I really liked this statue in the Chapel.......

 

 

 

Meals are taken with the monks in their refectory, and are...interesting!  The big question around each meal is usually 'What's this?' Which is very biblical, I guess - being as 'Manna' translates as precisely that! Whatever is eaten one day, usually turns up as soup the next! 

 

Breakfast is different, as we eat this together in a small dining room. It consists of bread, with cold meat - if you're first down - and various spreads and preserves.  There is coffee in jugs on the tables, or a coffee machine in the small kitchen.  I decided to be brave one day and use the machine to make a cappucino.  I looked at the machine, and saw some flemish instrucions on a note pointing to one of the buttons, so I pressed it, assuming that to be the right one.  I now know what the flemish for 'Don't press this or you'll get a jug full of coffee dispensed into your small cup.' looks like. 

 

Much amusement, but little sympathy from my clergy colleagues!

 

 

 

The Abbey itself is beautiful, and the Abbey Church is stunning...

 

 

 

 

 

 

I bought a guide book rather than taking loads of pictures,

so I'm afraid I only have two photos of one small chapel to share here!

 

Well, that's enough for now.  Much to do, so I'll post more tomorrow.

Being Messy...

At Bardwell, they link their Messy Church sessions to Festivals, so the arrival of Pentecost demanded much planning from the team. But, oh, was it worth it.  What fun we had, with paint, paper, glue and jelly.  Yes - Jelly.  Lovely wobbly, cold stuff. Read on for more information!


 Pentecost being about the Holy Spirit, we focussed the activities on wind and flame. (Not real flames, you understand, but there is a lot you can do with paint, and the colours of flame!)

Here, the activity is focussing on wind, and we made windmills.  You remember, the kind you used to stick in a sandcastle at the beach?

It was reasonably simple, and surprisingly popular!

Pentecost wasn't the only celebration taking place in Bardwell - the windmill was rejoicing in getting its fourth sail, and we decided that this meant that mini windmills must be made. Empty toilet roll cardboard tubes being against the health and safety regulations (don't say it...) we rolled up cardboard, cut out sails, made doorways, and decorated beautifully! Very much a last minute activity, we had no real idea how this would work out, but it seemed to go well, with a certain Church Warden (don't worry Jo, I won't name you) taking a distinctly large amount of care over the placing of flowers and so on, only to put the double sided sticky tape in the wrong place when joining it together! Never mind - we sorted it!

By far the largest project of the afternoon was the altar frontal that we made.  Frances brought a cloth on which she had already placed a design, and we painted and painted, came up with this. Not bad, eh!  We were doing well with paintbrushes, but hands seemed better, and once you've done hands, you need footprints....

And to get footprints, you need someone willing to put their feet in paint and stand on the paper.  There was absolutely no shortage of volunteers!  We promise we washed feet afterwards! The frontal will be up in Church in Bardwell for a good while - call in and see it if you're passing!

Here are the smallest feet of the day.  We didn't paint these....

After all our craft stuff, we played pass the parcel - Pentecost being the Church's Birthday, we needed party stuff - and then we had the story of Pentecost, and a prayer.

Birthdays need cake, and so we had a Birthday cake, with a candle for each disciple - flames on their heads.......

Not much was left.....

So there you go - one Messy afternoon, and great fun for all.

What's that?  Jelly?  Oh yes....

Well........

We had flame coloured jelly - red, orange, and yellow - and jelly sweets hidden in it.  We had to put our hands in to find a sweet! It was gloriously cold and refreshing, and fantastic fun!

And messy.  But then, it was Messy Church!

Thank you Bardwell School! From a very busy Vicar!

Most weeks I spend my days running from one thing to another - pretty much like everyone else, I guess. Last week was no exception, and Wednesday was a particularly busy day, with an assembly (assessed by the children, just to add to the pressure) as a highlight. I knew I had to run from the school afterwards to make it to my next appointment on time, and that the rest of the day would be taken on the run too.  Except....  as I was leaving the school my eye was drawn to the notice in the photo above.  'Be still....the Lord is here.  Take some time out of your busy day and use this quiet space to pray, think or reflect.'

 

Be still.....Take time...pray, think, reflect.

I certainly needed to hear those words, as I ran around, pleased with my own busyness!

As I carried on through my day, that notice kept calling to me, and later in the day, I called back to the school and did exactly what it asked.  I sat and took time.  Looked around, prayed, reflected.

I sat in the quiet space for a while, reading the prayers that had been put up by the children, and enjoying the few minutes space, then wandered around the rest of the playground, which seemed equally inviting and peaceful, and it was so lovely that I thought I'd share it here!

I loved the quiet space made out of saplings bent over and joined.  In the middle, the sun came through, speckling the ground and making it warm enough to sit and enjoy the dreamcatchers hanging around the branches.

All around were signs of the children's gardening - from the vegetables...

To the wildflower garden still waiting to grow...

And the greenhouse made out of plastic bottles. The pieces of paper have the names of those who put the bottle in - everyone in the school did one...

And the insect hotel, and compost bins - some with worms to make liquid compost (eeww...but good for gardens, I guess...) mean that nothing is forgotton or wasted!

I know that Bardwell School holds a silver eco school award, and I'm not surprised. But what I valued was not the curriculum stuff that was being done, or the amount that must be being learned....no, what I valued that very busy day was the encouragement to take time and space, something we could all do with more of.  I finished my short time out by returning to the quiet space....

...and this kind of said it all!  So I sat and said thank you - for time out, for space, and for a reminder that, however busy we are, we should never be too busy to stop and take a few moments to be with God.  The website Sacred Space shares this story.... 

A Jewish boy, the only son of his devout parents, was a most biddable child, with one exception! He resisted learning the Torah. To his parents, nothing could have been more distressing. read more...

The Chief Rabbi was to visit their Synagogue. They decided to ask him to visit their home. He did, and after the meal the parents expressed to the Rabbi their concern about their son.
The Rabbi asked permission to place his arms around the boy. The parents agreed, moving to one side. They watched and waited, expecting to hear some word of advice from the Rabbi to the boy. But the only word they heard was silence as they watched their son rest close to the Rabbi’s heart.
The next day the boy began to study the Torah. His passion for God’s word grew. Years later he became a wise and loving Rabbi. Many asked him whence his knowledge came. He simply said, ‘I put my ear close to the Chief Rabbi’s heart and in that moment I heard the heartbeat of God.’
In the Gospel of John the ‘beloved disciple’ has his ear on Jesus’ heart. It is a privileged place. But I too am a beloved disciple, so I can do likewise. Only in silence can I hear the Lord’s heartbeat.
Lord, enrich my days with moments of silence, in which I simply listen to you.

So - from a very busy Vicar - Thank you Bardwell School, for the reminder, and for the lovely surroundings in which to 'Take some time...' and to hear the heart of God.